In my personal experience, a divorce, money (child support), if I couldn't change it, I'd ignore it. But to ignore my own adversity, I had to intensely focus on something else, typically a new interest or hobby. I dove into medieval history, and now have a suberb library on on the topic - the reading and the collecting books both informed me and kept my mind off the troubles I couldn't avoid. And I dove into baseball which to be honest, broke my heart but baseball despair is an infinitly more palatable despair than love loss.
If I have to persevere, then I do. It doesn't require inspiration. It's just doing whatever thing is mandatory.
If it's not mandatory, then I take my best guess about the long-term outcome. And if the risks seem to outweigh the rewards, I quit, and do whatever seems better.
I've got a lot of reasons for that, but the primary one is me sticking with my startup for waaaaaay longer than anybody would say is reasonable. Winners never quit, and quitters never win, but those who don't win and don't quit are idiots.
Reminds me of two quotes: The 'curse' that goes "may you live in interesting times" and "Pray for perseverance and that's what you'll get"
Although, I'm not sure I can think of any genuine adversity that one could simply walk away from as you seem to claim to be able to do.
How do you quit a major illness? Systemic prejudice? Homelessness? Imprisonment? War? Famine? Runaway inflation? Depression? Suicidal Ideation? Eating Disorders? Dementia/alzheimers/parkinsons/etc?
Sure, you can sometimes work your way through the situations to the other end, but that's what OP is asking about, isn't it? Where do you get whatever it is you need to make it through? What if there is no way through and the best possible outcome is just dealing with it as in the medical/mental instances?
If there is no way through, then I die. That's OK.
I guess what the OP wants to know is when you decide to cut it short, and die sooner rather than later, or keep going in the hopes that it gets better.
I don't have good advice for that. Mostly, in dire adversity, I stay alive through sheer inertia. It's better to keep one's options open, and dying cuts off all of the options. That's not inspiration, and I don't think "inspiration" would be a great thing to give even if I had it to offer.
In my personal experience, a divorce, money (child support), if I couldn't change it, I'd ignore it. But to ignore my own adversity, I had to intensely focus on something else, typically a new interest or hobby. I dove into medieval history, and now have a suberb library on on the topic - the reading and the collecting books both informed me and kept my mind off the troubles I couldn't avoid. And I dove into baseball which to be honest, broke my heart but baseball despair is an infinitly more palatable despair than love loss.
Perseverance is overrated.
If I have to persevere, then I do. It doesn't require inspiration. It's just doing whatever thing is mandatory.
If it's not mandatory, then I take my best guess about the long-term outcome. And if the risks seem to outweigh the rewards, I quit, and do whatever seems better.
I've got a lot of reasons for that, but the primary one is me sticking with my startup for waaaaaay longer than anybody would say is reasonable. Winners never quit, and quitters never win, but those who don't win and don't quit are idiots.
Reminds me of two quotes: The 'curse' that goes "may you live in interesting times" and "Pray for perseverance and that's what you'll get"
Although, I'm not sure I can think of any genuine adversity that one could simply walk away from as you seem to claim to be able to do.
How do you quit a major illness? Systemic prejudice? Homelessness? Imprisonment? War? Famine? Runaway inflation? Depression? Suicidal Ideation? Eating Disorders? Dementia/alzheimers/parkinsons/etc?
Sure, you can sometimes work your way through the situations to the other end, but that's what OP is asking about, isn't it? Where do you get whatever it is you need to make it through? What if there is no way through and the best possible outcome is just dealing with it as in the medical/mental instances?
If there is no way through, then I die. That's OK.
I guess what the OP wants to know is when you decide to cut it short, and die sooner rather than later, or keep going in the hopes that it gets better.
I don't have good advice for that. Mostly, in dire adversity, I stay alive through sheer inertia. It's better to keep one's options open, and dying cuts off all of the options. That's not inspiration, and I don't think "inspiration" would be a great thing to give even if I had it to offer.
Going through a difficult time.